Quirky Friendship

It been long now and thought of writing something for one of the best friends.

There is a quote from a Hindi Movie of late 80s: ‘Ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi dost nai hote’ (A boy and a girl cant be just friends)

Some say it does not exists some define it as love. And I say: It does exist where a boy and a girl CAN BE – Just Friends and not only that, Bestest of the Friends – BESTIES. Yes it is love, Love as Friends same as when you say I Love You Mom and that exists.

It’s a connection between two people, a strong bond. That happens with someone when you can relate yourself in that person. The way you like the things, the similarities between both of them. When you like to share each and everything whether its happiness or sorrow.

The understanding between both:

When you need to leave the other person alone and when you need to just keep on calling or messaging till (s)he replies…

When (s)he doesn’t leave you even when you shout on them during your bad moods. The one who tolerates you and still doesn’t leave your side till you calm down. Leaves you all smiling making you forget what happened at the first place…

When (s)he knows the just right time when you need them and the phone rings…

When you humming the tunes to a song and (s)he pitches in with the lyrics of that song and completes it…

Why this blog? cause I have one of a kind-crazy-lovable-always making me smile-can’t stop talking-doesn’t listen up- type of a ‘BESTIE’

Such is the friendship we share, quirky it is..!!!

And dare to someone who calls her or me BESTIE in front of us, It’s only what we can call each other and no one else – Like a copyright..!!!

We met by chance and became friends. Our destiny is keeping us close to each other making our friendship grow more..

YOU ARE A FRIEND FOR LIFETIME

Love, Friendship, etc..

Aarav and Ankita had a clash one more time. She expected him to message her when he was in town and he felt she would understand like always. Little did he knew that she felt hurt every time knowing from his social media statuses that he was in town. But this time she was really pissed off and annoyed. When he asked her to meet instantly, she denied. The unexpected happened and they both stopped talking.

Ego in the friendship is the worst enemy for the best friends as well as are the expectations.

After few weeks, one fine Sunday evening she messaged him and they got talking. At the end of conversation once again they decided to meet next weekend and sort things out between them. After 15 days of making a plan they decided to meet the next weekend and both wished to meet the same day however the day passed and they let it be.

But universe had a different plan and as its said universe always conspires to make it happen. Due to his father’s sudden illness, he had to rush to the town, the Saturday night. He messaged her that he’s coming but more than excitement she was worried and stressed. His father’s illness improved the next morning and got back to somewhat normal.

She decided to surprise him instead of killing time and sleeping in afternoon. Somehow she put her Sunday laziness away and decided to step out and meet him at the hospital.

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At the hospital … 

It was a typical hospital with the guards throwing around weight but she behaved as if she didn’t notice what they asked and stepped into the lift. The room was on the 4th floor. She reached room and knocked the door.

He opened door and was happily surprised to see her. It was dark with lights off and Aarav’s father was sleeping. They hugged each other and then sat on the side lounge lazily, giggling in the dim lights of the room. It was a long time that they had met each other. All the differences had eloped instantly, looking in each other eyes.

If it wasn’t have been a hospital, probably the romantic lighting could have helped ease out the stress between them however both were conscious enough. They talked for an hour and still it seemed like she had just came in. She returned home but somewhere in her heart she felt that there was a lot he wanted to share but didn’t. Maybe due to the situation or may be he wanted to first ease out the stress. Let’s see how it unfolds and what’s there in the box for them.

To be continued..!!!

‘Love’ or ‘Like’

Is there a difference between “TO LIKE a PERSON” and “TO LOVE A PERSON”. Me and my friend were having tea during the break at the tea stall outside our office & were discussing, rather debating on this. I told her there is no difference. If you care for someone and like to be around them whether s/he is your friend or a part of your family, then you like or love a person. She immediately nodded her head and with a smile on her face started explaining:

• Wow, she looks beautiful!
  
• Her hairstyle is just awesome.
  
• She is dressed so nicely
  
• Her blue eyes are so attractive, etc.. etc..

When you think or talk about a girl with any such above statements, means you LIKE her and not LOVE her. You are explaining the characteristics what you like about her. But do you LOVE her? Think again..!!!
Love can never be explained or measured. It can be only expressed. Love is a feeling that connects two persons emotionally, physically & mentally.

• When you cannot live a minute w/o thinking about someone
  
• When, with that person, you forget all your worries
  
• When you are happy to change yourself for that special person, but (s)he does not want you to do that
  
• When you wake up in the morning and want to see the first text message from that someone
  
• When (s)he get hurts emotionally or physically, you are the first to get your eyes wet
  
• When you come to the coffee shop 1hr before the scheduled time and find (s)he has already arrived.
  
• When every song & its lyrics, you are listening to, relates to that one person

This is what you call LOVE. Understood my dear friend, she said smiling and stood up to leave while I started relating to what she just said, which was so true..!!!

Have a great Weekend ahead..!!!

Spread the Love..!!! 

Happiness.. It’s in YOU

I lived happiness today, just by a comment, a message, meeting few people for whom you are important and vice versa. When people make you feel special, you know you have done something good.

Happiness is:

• When your friend 1000kms far, enjoying his holiday and messaging you how happy he is and sharing his feelings.
• When you are sitting with your friend and silently enjoying that hot cup of coffee.
• When someone who is not going to return; who made you laugh and stood by you at every stage of your life; you can feel the presence of that person sitting besides you and a smile lights up on your face.
• When you are out witted by your kiddo, like you used to do when you were of the same age.
• Sitting at the beach and watching the sun dive into that sea.

Life has become a routine and at the end of every day we complain how bad it was. So many things happen in our life but we miss the small small things which made us happy for an hour, minute or a second. Rather than complaining, think about those moments. Rewind and Re-live the moments. Your life will get a new perspective and you will actually starting living the life.

HAPPINESS IS YOU AND IT’S YOU WHO HAS THE POWER TO CHANGE THE LIFE HOW YOU WANT TO LIVE..!!!

Friendship Forever..!!!

Friends like you are very few,
I can be myself when with you..!!!
No matter how sad I am,
The one who brings back my smile is only YOU..!!!

No matter how far we are,
Still connected at every hour..!!!
You have always been there,
Whether I am happy or sad..!!!

I dont want to loose you at any cost,
Life now without you seems completely lost..!!!
This relationship of ours no one can tear,
A unique bond something is what we share..!!!

I will always cherish the friendship with you,
Because, Friends like you are very few..!!!